Since the beginning of the year, I feel like I lost motivation to do anything and everything. I barely want to write a blog or read my monthly book. But the thing is, I still push myself to do things that are essential. So, I guess I haven’t completely lose motivation.

My loss of motivation to write is due to the fact that I feel like people are not supporting me enough when it comes to my blogging. although, I understand that everyone will not always support you in everything you do or want to do and them not supporting you may be more about them than it is about you. However, sometimes you just want to feel like someone believes and is rooting for you.

Don’t get me wrong, not getting as much support as I want with my blog would not in any way stop me from doing what I enjoy doing. I have just come to understand that you can’t please everyone in life. you just can’t. It’s impossible. Wanting support and encouragement from people around us is natural. Nevertheless, when you don’t get it, you should always do what you want regardless.

                                                                Kenny’s takeaway quote

               “When you feel like quitting, think about why you started”

                                            Words by Kemi Adaba

Firstly, I am privileged to be the writer on kennysdiary this week.

I have a lot to write about kenny, but I will make it brief today. kenny is considered as a beautiful young lady, her face could look like a baby face, not only because of her beautiful chocolate skin with a little caramel topping but because of her expression. kenny is one of the first person who will always be there to pick you up when you fall. A shoulder to cry on.

A sister is always a friend and I must say kenny is one true friend. She could be a little bit annoying sometimes. In fact, overly annoying but kenny always mean good to people around her.

Kenny is an energetic young lady, she takes her blogging to heart like her life depends on it lol. Sometimes, kenny can be helpful even though she will have to complain about it all day.

Kenny is a reliable person, she keeps my secret when I tell her about them. I know I can trust her as a sister and as a friend!

                                                        Kemi’s takeaway quote

        “Sisters make the best friends in the world” – Marilyn Monroe

                                                 Words by Kenny Adaba    

This book is a good self-help book that explains what magic is and how to become magic. And no, not the type of magic where you can make things appear and disappear! in this book, the Autor explains that magic and becoming magic is the sparkling feelings of been alive, the energy of feeling you are capable of anything and feeling on top of the world.

After reading this book, you will have an optimistic and excited feelings about the future. Because, it explains to you how to look at things, the world, and people in a positive way and the effect it has on you.

If you are someone who complains a lot, then I will definitely recommend that you read this book. I am guilty of this as well. Lol. But after reading this book, I have learnt and understand that complaining, will only invite more things to complain about.

In this book, you will learn about the effect of manifestation and how it can have an effect on your overall result. For example, if you manifest to have a perfect partner, but you still feel within yourself that you are not worthy or beautiful, this perfect partner your wish for, is most likely not going to come to you.

Although, at some point, the Autor seems to be contradicting herself. I.E, she said the whole “thoughts become things” principle, is all wrong and then went on to explain the effect of  “manifestations”

This is a small and easy book to read. However, I still feel like I haven’t understood this book completely. So, I will be reading it again. In other to make the most out of this book, I will advise you to read it more than once and then again and again.

                                                         Kenny’s takeaway quote

                  “If you are not ready, you will lose it every time” – Genevieve Davis

 Everyday of our lives should be treated like a new beginning and not just the first day/month of a new year.

We should have resolution for everyday and not just new year resolutions. Everyday should be regarded as a new beginning of a new, improved, and happier life.  

I stopped setting new year resolutions because, I realised that I’m likely not to carry them out and sometimes, I start and tend not to finish it.

When you fail to achieve a goal or couldn’t carry out a decision, you can always do it again another day. You don’t have to wait for the beginning of the next coming year to set a resolution just to try the same thing out again. Make use of everyday of the year to set new resolution. If you fail, keep attempting it until you achieve it.

I am not saying new year resolutions are not good, however, if you don’t want to see yourself in the same position every year making the same resolutions, don’t rush to set resolutions. Instead, “approach the new year with resolve to find the opportunities hidden in each new day” – Michael Josephson. If your goals from the previous year has not been fully achieved, carry on working harder towards it in the new year. As the new year goes on, you will begin to set new goals and resolutions for yourself to achieve.

You will be surprised how much you can achieve in life just by doing this, rather than subjecting yourself to a particular resolution just because it’s the beginning of a new year.

                                                                  Kenny’s takeaway quote

“Everyday that you open your eyes is a new day and another day to get it right” – Jean Renee Porter