I feel like I have experienced it all. I’m still coming to terms with this, but I am grateful for all the relationships, love and insecurities I experienced.
Never will I lose myself again for anything or anyone. This is the most important lesson relationship has taught me. I’ve learnt that, when dealing with someone, I should always stick to myself. But also, allow myself to love and be loved.
Since I always put all my all into a relationship, the break-ups were always felt. Extremely!. Every break-up cost a piece of me that I will never be able to get back. Coming to that realisation, makes the whole healing process even harder. I will feel hurt, betrayed and always end up wishing I never met them to begin with.
However, I’m practicing the act of forgiveness and seeing the best in people. I will be discussing in my next blog post. Anyways, deciding to move onto a new healthy relationship comes with forgiveness. Forgiving your ex for how they treated you, forgiving yourself for how you treated them and forgiving yourself for accepting the way you were treated.
Forgiving someone, gives you back your power. Gratitude switch back the power to you, The power you’ve once lost.
Relationships/love can be addicting, and like every addiction, it changes you. A lot of us hold onto something that once was, and I’m learning that sometimes, it’s better to let go and accept what is rather than what was.
Instead of seeing love as a drug, I am learning to see love as a growth and I am excited and looking forward to the love stories I will be writing in the future. 🙂