Attracting an High value man as an high value/quality lady

Ladies you want an high value man but Are you rightly positioning yourself to attract this high value man?

An high value man also wants an high value lady. Are you an high value lady?

Being an high value lady isn’t only about your possessions, education or job title. It’s Also about the way you speak, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself and most importantly the places you go. Its a whole package and once you’re the whole package you will chase the bums away and attract what you rightly deserve (An high value man).

In Finance, there’s something called strategic positioning. “Strategic positioning is focused on how an organization sets itself apart from the competition and delivers a benefit to target customers” You have to strategically position yourself and lifestyle in a way that will attract your type of High Value man. You can’t be an high value lady but positioning yourself in a low value manner.

As an high value lady that wants an high value man, you must know when to work away from situations that doesn’t benefit you, you must know your worth and an high value man wouldn’t have you questioning that because he also knows he’s worth. You won’t have to tell an high value man what you bring to the table, he will figure it out and in most cases he already did before he even approached you. You won’t have to proof nothing to an high value man. An high value man is an high value man because he knows what he wants and he also knows time is precious and wouldn’t waste it on something he clearly doesn’t see going anywhere.

This message is only for high value women that also wants an high value man. If you’re not about that, don’t start doing strategic positioning. That will only mean you’re living a fake life and I’m not a preacher of faking it. An high value man will smell the fakeness in you from far and it’s only a matter of time until your real self comes out.

After a lot of self evaluation, I’ve come to understand that I have to stop doubting my self, my worth or watering myself down to meet the people who clearly doesn’t deserve my type of person and value. So I really hope this post helps every lady who knows their worth but find it hard to attract that they truly deserve!!.


Personal: Finding yourself

Constantly feeling lost and finding myself again has inspired me to write this blog-post. 

With everything going on in the world right now and in my personal life, I have been questioning who I am, what I want, and where I am headed. Asking myself these questions was not the problem but for the first time in my life, I find it difficult to answer them.

I’ve always been the girl who knows what she wants and does not shy away from dreaming big. 

I have always found joy in keeping myself busy and productive. Feeling sad? I just sit down and channel that into writing a blogpost. Feeling lonely? I just ring my close people for some chatty-patty moment. Instead of actually dealing with my feelings, I rather focus on creating blog post or occupying my time by staying on the phone. However, recently, I feel like I reached my low point and could not transform my negativity into positivity. At that moment, I just felt lonely and confused. I could not stop crying and for once, I felt like giving everything up. however, one thing that kept hunting me was the reason why I started.

I am currently figuring things out for myself and will update you when I have my mind clear. Which i hope is going to be very, very soon! 

Now, My question is how do you deal with feeling lost?

APC candidate: Biodun Abayomi oyebanji


An All Progressive Congress (APC) party chieftan from Gbonyin Local govt area of Ekiti State Hon Babatunde Adaba has urged the good people of Ekiti state to vote massively for the party candidate in the forthcoming gubernatorial election Mr Biodun Abayomi
In a press release Hon Adaba Babatunde urged the Ekiti to vote for Mr Oyebanji for continuity of the developmental projects started by the current Governor Kayode Fayemi to move Ekiti State forward
Mr Adaba added that with Mr Oyebanji’s pedigree as seasoned administrator with many years of experience in corporate governace,the Ekiti people will enjoy greater dividence of democracy when he is elected to lead the state to a brighter future

Finally he appealed to Ekiti people to come out in their large numbers and vote for His Excellency BIODUN ABAYOMI OYEBANJI (BAO) as our next Governor in EKITI STATE


Make up artist: @Jae_artistry
Photographer: @alexjonathanphotography
Gele: @taiwos_touch

Heyyy guys!! Hope we’re all good! Welcome to a new blog post week of kennysdiary!

First off, thank you for the congratulatory messages people! But I didn’t get married lol.

When it comes to Owanbe outfits, Nigerians are always making sure looking their best is the goal. Owanbe has become a trendy occasion that comes up mostly on Saturdays. and there’s always this feeling of anticipation and a feeling of what to wear, the funniest part is some get all worked up just because of what to wear and how they’d look for the occasion.

I’m not a native attire person, but on the day of this photoshoot, I realised how much I love my culture and the people. Everything about making this looks was so perfect, from praying before our session, to getting my make up done, having my gele tied by the baddest Taiwo’s Touch all the way from Lagos to fitting into my aso ebi and Ofcourse to posing for the perfect images.

Creating this look has made me anticipate my engagement day 🙂 the congratulatory messages, the repost and the love just made me realise how much of an achievement getting married to the love of my life will actually be!.

Thank you to the team for giving me the opportunity to participate in this beautiful classic Yoruba Bride look. I won’t trade the experience for anything and I’m looking forward to working with them again and again.